There was a time I believed I had to show up online a certain way to be successful. You know the look: perfectly curated captions, a highlight reel of wins, and never a hair out of place. But, let me tell you a secret: I was exhausted.
Every time I sat down to write a caption, blog post, or send an email, I found myself wondering, “What do people want to hear?” instead of asking, “What do I actually want to say?”
And it wasn’t until shifting from always performing to just showing up, didn’t just change my business, it changed me. When I finally stopped hiding behind what I thought people wanted to see, I started attracting clients who actually wanted me. The kind of clients who trusted my work, valued my perspective, and stuck with me year after year.
The Truth About Trust (and Why It Sells More Than a Discount)
Here’s the thing: trust is the #1 driver in sales right now. People aren’t buying perfection. They’re not even buying price tags. They’re buying connection. They’re buying clarity. They’re buying you. Let’s break it down a little more.
- Authenticity builds trust. The more real you are, the easier it is for people to believe in you.
- Clarity reduces stress. When your words and actions match, potential clients feel safe choosing you.
- Trust kills indecision. People don’t sit on the fence when they believe in who they’re hiring.
When I started showing up online as my true self, with my awkward quirks, opinions, Midwest-isms and all, I created emotional safety for your clients. And that emotional safety? That’s what leads to referrals, loyalty, and a brand that continues to grow with me!
How to Start Showing Up as You on Instagram and in Your Emails
You don’t have to overshare or spill your deepest secrets online. But you do need to be consistent and true to your voice. Here’s how to start:
1. Speak Like You Talk
Read your captions and emails out loud before you hit post or send. If it doesn’t sound like how you’d say it to a friend over coffee, rewrite it. Ditch the buzzwords. Keep it real.
2. Share the Behind-the-Scenes
Not just the glossy final photo, but the messy, funny, “you had to be there” moments that made the shoot memorable. Your clients want to see you, not just your work.
3. Stop Chasing Trends That Don’t Fit
If trending audio or viral tips don’t align with your style, skip them. You’re not a cookie-cutter creator. You’re a full human running a business with soul.
4. Use Your Emails to Go Deeper
Instagram is for glimpses. Email is for connection. Use your newsletter to share stories, lessons, even the occasional hot take. The inbox is sacred, treat it like a letter to a friend, not a sales pitch!
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Repel
If your honest, heartfelt content turns someone away, good!!! That just made space for someone who is your person. You have to understand that you’re not for everyone, you’re for your people…and there are always plenty of “people” to go around!
When You Show Up Authentically, Everything Gets Easier
You know what happens when people start to trust you? You don’t have to convince them. You don’t have to run sales all the time. You don’t have to over-explain your pricing. You don’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not.
Instead, your inbox fills with, “I don’t know what it is, but I just feel like you’re the right fit.” And those are the clients that stay with you, they refer you and they actually become your friends.
Feeling Stuck Hiding Behind Polished Captions?
If you’re a photographer who’s been trying to sound like everyone else… or you’ve been discounting your services to get noticed… this is your sign. My 1:1 mentorship program is designed to help you build a brand that feels true, systems that make your business sustainable, and the kind of client relationships that last for years.
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FAQ: Authenticity, Branding, and Business Growth for Photographers
1. Why is authenticity important in business?
Authenticity builds trust, which is the foundation of strong client relationships. When people feel connected to the real you, they’re more likely to hire you, refer you, and stay loyal.
2. How can photographers stand out on Instagram?
By being themselves. Instead of mimicking trends or competitors, photographers can stand out by sharing real stories, behind-the-scenes content, and their unique perspective.
3. What should I write about in my emails as a photographer?
Share personal stories, client wins, favorite moments from recent shoots, lessons you’ve learned, and tips your audience would value. Keep it conversational and helpful.
4. How do I find my brand voice as a photographer?
Start by noticing how you talk when you’re relaxed. Then, write like that. Use words that feel natural to you, and test content that feels like “you” instead of what’s trending.
5. What if people don’t like the real me online?
That’s okay. You’re not meant to attract everyone you’re meant to attract the right people. Repelling the wrong clients is a win, not a failure.
6. Can being authentic actually grow my business?
Absolutely. It leads to stronger client relationships, more word-of-mouth referrals, and less time wasted trying to “sell” yourself. People buy from people they trust and trust comes from being real.
About the Author
Ren Lenhof is the creative force behind Studio 29 Photography. With over a decade of experience capturing candid family moments and mentoring photographers nationwide, she’s passionate about helping others build sustainable, joy-filled businesses. Through her warm, strategic coaching style, Ren empowers photographers to improve their communication, create unforgettable client experiences, and grow a business that keeps people coming back year after year.
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