I used to think I understood how stressful picking outfits for family photos could be. I’d reassure clients with tips, pin inspo boards, and send gentle reminder emails that said things like, “Coordinating, not matching, is key!” But then I became a mom. And had to get three of us dressed,  at the same time, for a photo session…and plan everything perfectly so that no one got messy or sweaty before we even arrived for photos.  Let me tell you, I REALLY get it now, 1000%!!!

Finding something trendy but timeless, something comfortable but photo-worthy, that fits everyone (and arrives on time)? It feels like a part-time job. Add in a toddler with opinions on clothes and a partner who thinks their 2009 band tee counts as formalwear, and you have the recipe for a small emotional meltdown.

But here’s the thing: you don’t have to overthink it. Seriously. I’ve been on both sides of the lens, and I’m here to give you permission to keep it simple, stay comfortable, and actually enjoy your family photo session without losing your mind over what you’re all wearing.

Step-by-Step: Stress-Free Family Photo Outfits

1. Pick a Palette, Not a Uniform

Start by choosing 2–3 main colors and 1–2 accent tones. Think earthy neutrals, soft pastels, or rich autumn hues. Everyone can mix and match within that palette instead of matching exactly. (No shade to denim-on-denim, but it’s not 2003 anymore.)

2. Shop Smart: My Favorite Go-To Stores for Kids’ Outfits

Here are a few spots that always deliver for family sessions:

• Amazon: Fast shipping and tons of choices
• Carter’s: Classic, cute, and budget-friendly
• Colored Organics: Soft, sustainable basics that look great on camera
• Rylee + Cru: Trendy, neutral-toned pieces that photograph beautifully. Visit my Rylee + Cru storefront and use code STUDIO29PHOTOGRAPHY to save 15% off your order!

 3. Mom & Dad 

Let’s be real: you’re probably the one booking the session and stressing about outfits. Start with what YOU feel great in—a flattering dress, cozy sweater, flowy skirt, whatever makes you feel confident. Then build the rest of the family’s looks around that.

Top Stores for Moms for Family Photo Outfits

• Anthropologie & Free People: Think flowy midi and maxi dresses, lace tops, kimonos, and romantic silhouettes with visual texture. Great for boho‑chic or vintage-inspired looks.
• Baltic Born: Soft gauze and linen dresses with flattering cuts and earthy colors that photograph beautifully; ideal for maternity or postpartum outfits.
• Aritzia: Elevated, minimalist styles that feel modern yet timeless—perfect for a polished, cohesive family look.
• Gap & Abercrombie & Fitch: Classic basics in affordable fabrics and tons of color options; highly rated for coordinating easily with kids’ outfits.

Top Stores for Dads for Family Photo Outfits

• Gap: Great picks for casual button‑downs, sweaters, and chinos in neutral tones that look great on camera without feeling stiff.
• Brooks Brothers: For dads who want a refined, classic look—tailored shirts, lightweight sweaters, polished outerwear.
• H&M: Offers smart casual styles in modern neutrals and earthy tones—budget-friendly and photography-friendly.

4. Textures and Layers Are Your Friends

Mixing knits, denim, linen, and cotton adds depth and dimension to photos. Throw on a cardigan, a vest, or a beanie for visual interest (and warmth if it’s chilly out).

5. Skip the Logos, Ditch the Neon

Logos, characters, and ultra-bright colors can be distracting. Go for solid colors or subtle prints that won’t steal the spotlight from your smiles.

6. Try It All On Before the Day Of

Don’t leave outfit try-ons until the morning of your shoot. Trust me. Try everything on a few days before to make sure it fits, feels good, and works together. That way, no surprises when it’s go-time.

Outfit Stress? Solved.

You deserve photos that feel like you — relaxed, joyful, and totally in the moment. That means wearing clothes you love, not ones you had to bribe your kids into. Need a little outfit inspo?

Shop my go-to outfit picks now for effortless, photo-ready looks. And when you’re ready to make some magic…Book your family session here!

FAQ: What to Wear for Family Photos

What are the best colors to wear for family photos?

Stick to earthy neutrals, soft blues, muted greens, or warm fall tones. Avoid ultra-bright colors and anything too matchy-matchy.

Can we wear jeans in our family photos?

Yes! Jeans can work great if they fit well and are paired with elevated tops or layers. Aim for a casual-but-polished vibe.

Should we all match in family photos?

Not exactly. Instead, coordinate within a color palette. Everyone should look cohesive, but not like clones.

How do I dress a toddler for family photos?

Comfort is key. Look for soft fabrics, simple layers, and neutral or solid colors. Bonus if they’ll keep a cute hat on.

Where can I buy outfits for kids that photograph well?

I recommend Amazon, Carter’s, Colored Organics, and Rylee + Cru.

What should we avoid wearing in family photos?

Skip logos, characters, neon colors, and anything uncomfortable or ill-fitting. If you wouldn’t wear it to brunch, skip it.

Why These Work Well for Family Photos

• Coordinated palettes: These brands offer neutral or complimentary color options that are easy to mix and match across the whole family

• Texture and layering: Think gauze dresses from Baltic Born, linen shirts from Old Navy, knit sweaters, denim jackets—these elements help family photos feel rich and dimensional.

• Sizing flexibility: Lots of sizes available, with inclusive sizing from casual to nearly dressy—great for moms and dads with different style needs

About the Author

Ren Lenhof is a Milwaukee, Wisconsin-based family photographer and founder of Studio 29. With an eye for genuine connection and a knack for keeping photo sessions fun and stress-free, she helps families capture joyful, real-life moments they’ll cherish forever. When she’s not behind the lens, you’ll find her wrangling her two sweet doggies & baby Boy Lake, sipping coffee, and sharing tips to make your next session effortlessly beautiful.